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Below is a list of families whose child, ages from 0 - 3yrs, has died as the result of some form of illness. The families you find here have consented to being contacted to receive and provide support in this way. Please feel free to contact as many as you would like. Every effort is made to make sure the e-mail address for each family is current. But, as it often happens, sometimes addresses change for different reasons and without notice.

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e-mail: luvamom@yahoo.com
lost her 9 month old daughter, Amber, on 11/26/2002 as the result of an unknown cause. 

e-mail: daznpr@yahoo.com
lost her 1 day old son, David, on 4/3/1996 as the result of fetal hydrops & PFC. "If you have been through the death of a child then you know how I feel. I serve a mighty God and I know he has brought me to where I am today. If you have gone through the death of a child, then I KNOW how you feel. God Bless!"
e-mail: bsbjaam2002@aol.com
lost her 10 month old daughter, Alexis, on 1/12/2000 as the result of Leigh disease.
e-mail: bethwilson99@hotmail.com
lost her 22 month old son, Mitchell, on 1/9/2001 as the result of brain stem encephalitis.
e-mail: dscheumann@earthlink.net
2060 E State Rd, Berne IN 46711-9117
lost her 2 1/2yr old son, Codey, on 82/1997 as the result of an acute brain edema.
Kasandra & William
e-mail: wcreger@ini.net
lost their 2 month old daughter, Ashley, on 11/3/2000 as the result of a heart defect/NEC.
Jodi & Craig
e-mail: jodi76@hotmail.com
lost their 2 day old son, Connor, on 3/1/2001 as the result of a brain hemorrhage.
e-mail: luvofmarilyn@hotmail.com
"I had a rare sickness called Reyes Syndrome when I was 3yrs. I had died while in my coma and had been brought back to life by an amazing doctor who is my angel. I believe I was saved to educate and comfort parents that have or had a child suffering from this quiet sickness. Please contact me if you want to talk. I have more than enough comfort and support to go around."
e-mail: disayshi@netzero.net
lost her 10 day old son, Trevor, on 8/2/2002 as the result of neonatal herpes.
e-mail: rose2795@aol.com
lost her infant daughter, Christina, on 11/18/2002  as the result of spina bifida. "This was our 3rd try. We had 2 miscarriages prior. Part of me wants to give up trying but I will always remember my daughter."
e-mail: firecracker36uk@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Victoria, on 1/23/1988 as the result of medical negligence.
e-mail: cpktom@bellsouth.net
lost her 1yr old granddaughter, Sarah, on 9/6/2004 as the result of acute pneumonia. "My granddaughter was playing. She had no symptoms, but the next morning they found her unresponsive. An ambulance rushed her to the hospital but they couldn't revive her. The doctor said that she had a high fever and had a seizure. The death certificate said acute pneumonia. She was healthy in every way except her lungs. All of us are numb with grief and so confused...we just don't understand how this could have happened. If you had a similar loss, please tell me about it. God bless all of you in your time of need."
e-mail: tayrenee98@aol.com
lost her 2yr old daughter, Hannah, on 7/18/2004 as the result of a brain hemorrhage. "Hannah died after her 5th surgery to help correct her heart condition. She ended up with a brain hemorrhage due to her surgery. I would love to talk to anyone who has lost a child in a similar situation or anyone who has lost a child for any reason. I would love to hear about your little angels."
e-mail: renee_cox@charter.net
lost her 4 month old daughter, Kennedi, on 8/13/2005 as the result of sepsis (streptococcus group A).
e-mail: kathyhunt@hotmail.com
lost her 4month old daughter, Aidan, on 10/20/2005 as the result of a heart defect.
e-mail: myangelvinnie@yahoo.com
lost her 15month old son, Idelfonso, on 12/14/2005 as the result of pneumonia. "I really would like a pen pal to share all of the things about my son and many other things. I am hoping that this may help me at this very difficult time in my life."
e-mail: duvall@findlay.edu
lost her 3yr old son, Ray, on 2/13/2006 as a result of a viral or bacterial infection that turned septic in addition to have congenital heart disease. "Although our son had a heart defect and was scheduled for surgery at 3 months of age, we did not expect him to pass away. He was thriving after almost dying during delivery and again at 4wks old. They never found what caused him to go into sepsis at 4wks old but it resulted in hydrocepholis and surgery for a VPshunt. He was back home at 3 1/2 months of age and had unexplained fevers every now and then. He had a seizure on 2/13 and his temperature went up to 107--he never recovered and they still don't know what the underlying cause was. He was our first son and we miss him very much. He was a blessing and a joy."
e-mail: km318x@nih.gov
lost her 2yr old son, Kevin, on 3/3/2006 as the result of Alagilles Syndrome. "Kevin fought his entire life against this disease. He had liver and heart disease. I took care of him for the last 2yrs and 4 months. That's all I knew--was Kevin. He was my life. Now he is gone and I am having a hard time adjusting."
e-mail: charlesmeissner@aol.com
lost her 6 day old son, Brandon, on 5/17/2006 as the result of NEC (necrotizing enterocolitis). "My son was neglected of a diagnosis although he had all of the signs. This cost him his life although he otherwise was a healthy boy at 5lbs 11oz. He died of NEC initially. It all happened so fast. I only remember seeing my 6 day old son's eyes open one night and the next morning he was hanging on by intubation with a heart rate of 35bpm. He was gone before I really got there. Is there anyone out there with a similar story or answers?"
e-mail: cassidy92983@lycos.com
lost her 21 month old son George, on 4/17/2007 as the result of pneumonia and several other illnesses. "I am a 23yr old female who needs help with the loss of my baby boy. Sometimes I feel as if no one else knows what I'm going through. Yet I know it could be way worse. The wounds of his death are still very much open and they hurt tremendously. I try to deal with the pain to the best of my ability but it seems so hard."
e-mail: fratusc@yahoo.com
lost her 18 month old son, Joey, on 5/10/1998 as the result of complications from lissencephaly. "My son Joey was born with Lissencephaly (smooth brain) he was diagnosed at 4moths of age. The gene that causes this type (LCH) that Joey has is unknown and has a 25% reoccurrence rate."
e-mail: avdem2@hotmail.com
lost her 2wk old son, Tyler, on 7/25/1999 as the result of entercolitis a complication of Hirschsprung's disease.
Angelina & Joe
e-mail: griffin@willinet.net
lost their 5 month old son, Griffin, on 1/23/1998 as the result of sepsis, a liver transplant, brain cancer & chemo.
e-mail: janina6@aol.com
lost her 2yr old foster son, Christopher, on 3/24/1987 as the result of bronchial pneumonia. Chris also had severe cerebral palsy and was epileptic.
e-mail: lcurtis3@adelphia.net
lost her 2wk old son, Allen, on 2/4/2002 as the result that he stopped breathing which stopped his heart. The cause of this is unknown. "Allen stopped breathing when he was 6 days old. He was rushed to the ER and taken to NICU where he fought for his life for 10 days. Allen went into a coma and never woke up. The doctor's best guess is that an internal burp or reflexum caused him to stop breathing, possibly clamping his vocal chord which is why it took until he got to the ER to be rescussitated."
e-mail: chrystalk18@yahoo.com
will lose the baby she is carrying (Emmanuel if it is a boy or Abigail if it is a girl) shortly after it's birth on or around 5/8/2002 as the result of Potter's syndrome (which means that the baby will be born without kidneys). "I'm just looking for someone to talk to who has or is going through this particular condition. I just have questions about how long their baby survived?  ...and was there any pain? I just want to know what to expect when we meet out child."
Greg & Jeanne
e-mail: jserr95@hotmail.com
lost their infant daughter, Grace, on 5/20/2002 as the result of anecephaly. "We will always love our baby Grace. She has a special spot in our hearts and we will never forget that."
e-mail: stub_26@hotmail.com
lost her 2yr old son, Jarred, on 8/4/2001 as the result of choking on something caught in his windpipe. "I need to talk to someone that been through the same thing."
e-mail: jonessherley@hotmail.com
lost her son, Joseph, when he was just 6hrs old on 6/8/1976 as the result of a heart problem.
e-mail: tinkbig@hotmail.com
lost her 2 month old son, Joshua, on 3/5/1995 as the result of a post-operative hypertensive crisis. "He died five days after open heart surgery."
e-mail: sweet_onelam4u@yahoo.com
lost her infant daughter, Audra, on 4/25/2007 as the result of aunoxia.
e-mail: whiskeygirl06@yahoo.com
lost her infant son, Stetson, on 5/29/2008 as the result of PKD. "I just recently lost my first son and I'm just looking for someone--anyone--to talk to."
e-mail: harleesmommy@yahoo.com
lost her infant daughter, Harlee, on 9/17/2007 as the result of multi-organ failure. "My sweet baby girl Harlee, named in memory of my deceased father, passed away when she was one month old. She fought a long, hard battle and I couldn't be more proud to be her mom. She was born perfectly healthy, but pneumonia overwhelmed her tiny body and her organs shut down on her. I love you, Harlee!"
e-mail: daftdee@blueyonder.co.uk
lost her 2yr old daughter, Daisy, on 5/11/2008 as the result of an infection. "Daisy was taken from us on the11th of May 2008. She had wilms cancer a year earlier and she had beaten it. She became ill and we took her to the hospital. She died from an infection. I would like to be in contact with people who know how I'm feeling right now."
e-mail: mommy2b20@hotmail.com
lost her 5 week old son, Hunter, on 7/7/2006 as the result of a congenital heart defect.
e-mail: missy-workman@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Lacey, on 9/22/2007 as the result of a rare condition. "I lost my little princess when I was 25wks pregnant. She had a rare condition. Her first birthday is coming up and I'm not sure how it's gunna go. Lacey is the first thing I think of when I awake and the last thing I think of before I fall asleep. I would like to talk to someone that has been through this and knows what it's like to live each day without her."
e-mail: julest05@comcast.net
lost her infant son, Francisco, on 8/16/2007 due to an unknown cause.
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