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Below is a list of families whose child, ages from 0 - 3yrs, has died as the result of a premature birth. The families you find here have consented to being contacted to receive and provide support in this way. Please feel free to contact as many as you would like. Every effort is made to make sure the e-mail address for each family is current. But, as it often happens, sometimes addresses change for different reasons and without notice.

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email: marynlambs@aol.com
Lost her infant son, Brandon, on 2/17/1982 as the result of premature birth. "My son would have been twenty years old had he lived. I blame myself so much for his early birth and death. He only lived four hours."

e-mail: angeladawn02@hotmail.com
lost two babies. She lost Abigail when she was 2 days old on 4/1/2001 as the result of premature birth and Jonathan was born and died on 5/3/2000 as the result of a "wrongful death".
e-mail: cadostalek@aol.com
lost her 3 week old son, Daniel, as the result of severely premature birth. "Our son, Daniel was born three months premature due to him having Duodnal Atresia associated with Down Syndrome causing me to have excess fluid. Danny was born three months premature and due to his severe premature birth, he got Necrotizing Enterocolitis when he was 16 days old and died at 21 days over age."
Kimberly & Patrick
e-mail: meadowshomestead@netzero.com
lost their twin infants, Ian & Rebecca, on 8/14/1998 as the result of heart failure caused by premature birth. They also lost another set of infant twins, Daniel & Jacob on 10/23/2003 as the result of premature birth.
e-mail: goddesslm@aol.com
lost her 5 day old daughter, Kaylee, on 12/23/2001 as the result of premature birth. "Kaylee was born at a little under 25 wks. She lived for 5 days. She had severe bleeding in her brain and other internal organs. We made the very difficult decision to remove her from her ventilator after we were told she would never be able to move either side of her body or communicate."
e-mail: jessiebeth2002@yahoo.com
lost her infant daughter, Shye, on 3/12/2001 as the result of premature birth and an infection caused by a lack of fluid.
e-mail: bonnie42095361@yahoo.com
lost her 17 day old daughter, Madison, on 8/15/2003 as the result of a hole in her brain, premature lungs and other complications due to her premature birth. "Doctors told me nothing was wrong in the beginning then a week later she had a lot wrong. I just need somebody to talk to."
e-mail: ruthwhaley5@aol.com
lost her 6wk old son, Logan, on 11/11/2003 as the result of premature lungs. "I lost my baby after 6 weeks of fighting for his life...his left lung never inflated and his heart gave out...need to talk with someone that has experienced losing a baby and maybe help me get the "WHY" out of my head."
e-mail: brann113@hotmail.com
lost her 8month old son, Brandon, on 9/3/2003 as the result of respiratory failure and extreme prematurity. "I delivered Brandon at 23 weeks, he was expected to die moments after birth, but fought a good fight.
I am not angry or bitter because God allowed Brandon to be with us for 8 months, I can't complain without the Lord this fight would have been a great BATTLE. I promised my Brandon that I would fight as long as he fights. "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. I encourage each of you that reads this to be of good courage our babies are now entry level angels in training to be our guardians. Please remember all things God is Good..
e-mail: kathleenacevedo1@yahoo.com
lost her infant daughters, Crystale and Cynthia on 10/30/2002 as the result of heart failure. They were conjoined twins that shared a heart. "I would like to talk to another mother that had conjoined twins and experienced their lost. I would like to share my experience and grief because, she might be the only one who would understand what I went through. Thank you very much!!!"
e-mail: smb31105@peoplepc.com
lost her infant daughter, Sarah, on 3/11/2005 as the result of premature lungs. "Sarah was only about 26 weeks and she was our miracle baby. We tried for 6yrs to have her. It's hard to understand why she is gone. I stare at her crib and wonder what her cry would sound like...or the touch of her fingers touching mine..."
e-mail: krkrnstr@yahoo.com
lost her infant son, Jonah, on 2/23/2005 as the result of premature birth. "I lost my son Jonah moments before birth at 22wks and 5 days. I have no other children. I would appreciate hearing from someone who has had a similar loss. I will cherish the short time I had with him and he will live forever in my heart."
e-mail: pretoria@homemakersfair.co.za
lost her 4day old son, Deon, on 4/20/2005 as the result of prematurity. "I still miss him so much!"
Regina & Derrick
e-mail: derrjaco@aol.com
lost their infant son, Derrick, on 1/30/2006 as the result of premature birth. "My husband and I lost our first child due to premature birth. We named him Derrick. I was 22wks--just four days away from my 23rd week. We would like to hear from someone who knows the pain we are going through."
e-mail: shdahl@netactive.co.za
lost her twin sons, Connor & Greggor as the result of premature birth. "My twins were born 25wks premature. Two gorgeous boys, Connor & Greggor. Greggor died a month after birth on 11/20/2005 as a result of renal failure. Connor died 3month after his birth on 1/4/2006 as a result of his cortex finally packing up--all due to being premature. We are devastated and would like to speak to anyone going through the same or similar experience. How does life go on?"
e-mail: shearod@bellsouth.net
lost her 7 month old son, Da'nyre, on 8/19/2003 as the result of BPD & heart failure. "Please write back. My baby died in 2003 and I am slowly healing."
e-mail: swtlilrdneckgurl@aol.com
lost her infant son, Gage, on 9/19/2001 as the result of an extremely premature birth and chorioamnionitis. "Gage would have been 5yrs old this year. I still carry the heartache of him not being here with me--and I always will. He lived only 15min. and I cherish the hours I got to hold him after he passed away. He is our little angel and he is greatly missed. We love him soooo much. I would love to talk to people who have experienced the same kind of loss."
e-mail: sarbare84@yahoo.com
lost her 6 day old daughter, April, on 10/16/2004 as the result of overfeeding in her feeding tube that burst her insides. "This wouldn't have happened if she wasn't born premature, but I still believe it was the doctor's fault. I am blessed with her identical twin sister."
e-mail: wendysallstar@aol.com
lost her1 day old son, Hunter, on 8/23/2006 as the result of premature birth caused by pre-eclampsia. "Hunter is our first child. I was diagnosed with pre-eclampsia and I delivered at 26wks. Although I was 26wks along, Hunter was only as big as a 22wk old baby. This is very difficult for me and my husband. If anyone has any comforting words, please contact me. It's nice to know there are people out there going through the same thing as us. It would be nice to have someone to talk to."
e-mail: s.beeman@mchsi.com
lost her infant son, Austin, on 1/7/2007 as the result of a stillbirth caused by an incompetent cervix. "I had been severely sick during the first three months and then everything seemed to be going okay. Then on the night of January 6th, I started having contractions. So I called the doctor's office and they said to lay down and rest to see if they would go away. They did. When I got up the next morning, I started having contractions again and by the time I arrived at the hospital I was fully dilated. My son did not die until he was born. I felt him move an we heard his heartbeat. I miss him so very much and there are some days that I don't think that I can continue on. I know that he is in a better place but that doesn't make it any easier. There is not a day that goes by that I don not cry for him and look at his pictures and wonder why."
e-mail: poeticwsdm@yahoo.com
lost her 5 week old son, Savion, on 7/16/2007 as the result of premature birth. "I would really like to know how one can cope without waking up to holding your baby. I would also like to know how soon to try to have another baby."
e-mail: tinkbig@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Makayla, on 2/4/2003 as the result of premature birth.
e-mail: lorawoolwine@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Kylah, on 3/20/2003 as the result of a premature birth caused by incompetent cervix. "Baby Kylah was born at 18 weeks and only lived 11 minutes. She died in her daddy's arms. I would be interested in speaking with anyone."
e-mail: jdobrich1@adelphia.net
lost her infant daughter, Gloria, on 3/15/2004 as the result of chorioamnioitis and an incompetent cervix. "I lost my daughter Gloria at 22 weeks due to chorioamnioitis/incompetent cervix. Am interested in talking to anyone to help answer questions and to speak with others who have lost a baby."
e-mail: sandie_gaye@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Gracie, on 12/5/2001 as the result of chorioamnioitis. "Mothers Day weekend 2001. labour was induced due to infection in fluid. She was gorgeous and lived for 1 hour after delivery. After 3 previous no problem pregnancies I was so completely devastated at her loss. It has affected my life forever in a way that I can't put into words."
e-mail: taralynnmcneely@hotmail.com
lost her 5 day old daughter, Adrianna, on 6/7/2004 as the result of premature birth, severe bleeding of the brain, infection, & lung problems. "I am interested in talking to anyone who can help me get through this. I feel like I am going crazy and do not know how to stop crying and being sad."
e-mail: richandtricia@earthlink.net
lost her infant son, Ryan on 6/25/2004 and her 1 day old son Joshua on 6/26/2004 as the result of premature birth. "My twin sons were born at 23weeks 2days gestation. They passed away in our arms. I can't function, I don't know what to do. We underwent IVF to conceive them and I am so afraid that my lovely daughter who is 7 years old will never have a sibling and my husband and I will never have the opportunity to parent more children. I miss my boys so much, I love them so much. I can't go a minute without thinking about them. I feel so guilty!"
e-mail: jeanne_francoise@hotmail.com
lost her infant son, Moser, on 2/3/2004 and her infant son, Arthur, on 8/15/2004 both as a result of premature birth. "I've lost two children at 22 and 20 weeks of pregnancy in the same year. I am happy to talk to anyone who has suffered a similar loss."
e-mail: dee_dee275@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Karina, on 3/29/2007 as the result of too much bleeding on the brain. "I would love to meet someone who has has the same thing happen. I would like to know how they are--especially after one year. Does it get better?"
e-mail: danielam1283@yahoo.com
lost her infant daughter, Ericka, on 2/3/2007 as the result of a premature birth due to incompetent cervix.
e-mail: jenyelenore@gmail.com
lost two babies as the result of premature birth. Her son Isaac died as the result of a brain bleed and her daughter Isabelle died as the result of renal failure.
e-mail: ramsay_claire4@hotmail.com
lost her infant daughter, Morgan, on 5/9/2008 as the result of a premature birth caused by pre-eclampsia. "It feels like yesterday she was taken from me. I would like to talk to people who have been through the same--someone who understands. Please be in touch."
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