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Below is a list of families whose brother or sister has died as the result of an accident. The families you find here have consented to being contacted to receive and provide support in this way. Please feel free to contact as many as you would like. Every effort is made to make sure the e-mail address for each family is current. But, as it often happens, sometimes addresses change for different reasons and without notice.

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e-mail: pugisme@aol.com
lost her 16yr old brother, Kevin, on 5/31/2004 as the result of an auto accident. "They lie when they say it gets easier. The crying doesn't stop and the pain doesn't end. I lost my only brother when he was 16. I didn't know life before him and I can't accept life without him. It destroys your happiness. It changes your outlook. It makes you mad, sad and guilty at the same time. My brother was generous and beautiful. He was killed 2 weeks after I graduated from college and a week to the day after my 22nd birthday. I promise that I will never let his memory fade. I don't want to forget one story or one smile--my memories are all I have left. Does anyone know what it is like to go from being someone's sister to being no one's sister? It's a long hard road and only those who are walking with us know just how long and hard it truly is. Please feel free to share all of your stories because it's only through remembering that they can live on!"

e-mail: lorrainetraceywood@hotmail.co.uk
lost her 22yr old brother, James, on 11/13/1996 as the result of a motorbike accident.
e-mail: wildsky99@aol.com
lost her brother, Kyle, as the result of an auto accident.
e-mail: lovesblink182@hotmail.com
lost her 17yr old friend, Blaire, on 5/24/2002 as the result of an auto accident. "Blaire died 3 days after our high school graduation. We were friends through school. I miss her very much and I have no idea how to deal with such a loss. Blaire had the whole world at her feet."
e-mail: eemenz82@yahoo.com
lost her 19yr old brother, Joel, on 3/10/2006 as the result of an auto accident.
e-mail: iseeulokn@aol.com
lost his 35yr old brother, Richard, on 9/11/2003 as the result of a trench accident. It collapsed onto him.
e-mail: beautifulsmile52@cs.com
lost her 13yr old sister on 4/5/2004 as a result of being struck by a truck while riding her bike. "I miss her a lot and it's only been a year. I would like to talk to someone who has actually experienced the loss of a sibling so that I can relate."
e-mail: rhenry@adelphia.net
lost her 22yr old sister, Candace, on 1/10/2005 as the result of an auto accident.
e-mail: bigg_j08@hotmail.com
lost his 12yr old brother, Maurice, on 10/19/2005 as the result of an auto accident. "I'm 16yrs old and I lost my 12yr old brother in a car accident. I'm just in so much pain...my whole family is. It's comforting to talk to people who are going through the same thing."
e-mail: sonnievds@yahoo.com
lost her 26yr old brother, Andre, on 10/13/2005 as the result of an auto accident.
e-mail: amy_martinez11@yahoo.com
lost her 25yr old brother, Kenny, on 2/19/2005 as the result of an accidental drowning. "I would love to be able to talk to someone who has had the same thing happen to them so I would know that I'm not the only who is going through the pain of losing their only brother. After the accident, I became the only child...thank you."
e-mail: eemenz82@yahoo.com
lost her 19yr old brother, Joel, on 3/10/2006 as the result of an auto accident.
e-mail: jo_norelius@yahoo.com
lost her 17yr old sister, Jessie, on 1/7/2002 as the result of an auto accident.
e-mail: katherine021@hotmail.com
lost her 19yr old sister, Sarah, on 4/21/2005 as the result of an auto accident.

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